TIPS FOR MOVING IN WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND
September 3rd, 2019
If you’ve been in a long-term relationship, you and your significant other may have decided it’s time to move in together. Although couples are cohabitating before marriage at a faster rate than in the past, there are challenges that come with living together that you might not think about in advance. Keep in mind that the two of you are signing a lease together, making a long-term commitment to that new apartment or house. Before you do that, here are some tips on how to successfully make that transition with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
Issues to Think About Before the Big Move
Couples who decide to move in together often do so for practical or economic reasons. That can include sharing the cost of rent, utilities, food and furniture, and in some cases, they want to test their compatibility in the long run. But more than a few people end up saying “I wish I had known …” after they move in together. Can you make it work? That’s up to you and your significant other. But there are some issues to consider before making the leap to cohabitation.
How to Share your Personal Space
The first thing you have to realize is that your space is now going to be shared with someone else. You may have your own lifestyle choices, or a favorite couch, chair, or room in the home, but the overall space is now shared by two and you need to make adjustments to the other person’s needs as well. It’s important to be considerate of their needs from day one.
If You Don’t Mind Clutter, Your Partner Might
You probably don’t notice your own clutter because you’re used to seeing it every day and have grown accustomed to it. For your significant other, that clutter can become everything from a tripping hazard to a messy eyesore. Neither of you is going to appreciate the other’s clutter, so it’s best to set rules for how to deal with it.
Kitchens Aren’t Made for Two
You may be used to a small kitchen in your old apartment because you were the only cook in the house. That’s not the case, obviously, if there are now two of you eager to use the kitchen. So what do you do? Consider cooking together, for one. It’s possible that you’ll find nothing can beat the pleasure of cooking and eating with your significant other every night. Can you say romance?Keep in mind this concept doesn’t just apply to your new, small kitchen. If there’s an occasion fight, as all couples do, then the lack of space for some breathing room is something to consider.
Compromise, Compromise, Compromise
If you’re used to getting your own way and not having to compromise on things, watch out! Keep in mind that when it was your space and your space alone, you only had to establish ground rules for yourself. Now that you share an apartment or home with someone else, it’s important to recognize that you’re going to have to compromise on a lot of issues. Be patient, and learn the fine art of accommodating someone else.
Embracing Differences for Successful Cohabitating
One thing you should consider when moving in together: embracing the other person’s quirks and the differences between you. When you’re living with your significant other, all of your idiosyncracies will be on full display. Don’t be uncomfortable about those differences — embrace them wholeheartedly. It’s often true that opposites attract.
There is a Plus to Coming Home to Someone Special
Assuming your work schedules are not in complete conflict, there has to be a lot of satisfaction in knowing that you’ll be coming home to your favorite person every night and not to an empty house or apartment. Chances are, you’re going to find a lot of satisfaction in that, which is one of the real pluses of moving in together. In fact, chances are you may want to spend more nights at home, with the two of you simply enjoying one another’s company.
It’s Okay to Miss Living Alone
It’s not uncommon to miss your old life of living alone when you first move in with your significant other. You had your own way of living, your own routine, and in a lot of ways that’s getting upended. Just don’t let the occasional regret keep you from fully embracing your new situation. From day one, learn to salute the good times with your partner.
Cohabitation Can Work If You Make It Work
Going from dating to living with your significant other can be challenging at first — and very rewarding in the long run. Chances are you’ll end up loving each other in new ways. And another issue to consider is that in your new apartment, it might be challenging trying to fit all of your belongings into the new unit. If living space becomes tight, some things may need to be placed into storage. If that’s the case, consider renting a storage unit like the ones available through Treasure Island Storage.
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Sometimes, there’s just not enough room to keep everything that you and your significant other have. If the clutter builds up, a smart plan is to rent a storage space. Many storage companies offer space affordably, with easy access. This can help both of us.For your New York and New Jersey area storage solutions, look no further than Treasure Island Storage! All of our facilities provide you with 24-hour access to your belongings while accommodating them with climate-controlled storage units. We offer include free moving services and storage units in multiple sizes. Contact us today to find a storage location near you.